Have you ever said, “I hate you!” If

Have you ever said, “I hate you!” If we are honest, we all have.

December 5, 2023

Have you ever said, “I hate you!” If we are honest, we all have. I remember when I was around 10 years old. I was so mad at my parents. I said, “I hate you!” I cannot even remember why I said this. It was the meanest thing I could say. My dad responded, “Well I love you. Now go to your room.” Tears came down my face. I was so upset. I said, “I don’t care,” and I stomped off to my room. As I was stomping off, my father said, “Well I still love you!” How could he say that? I was mad! Something happened to me as he spoke those words, “I love you.” A feeling of hope and reassurance emerged. My father stilled loved me, even when I was mad. What unconditional love. Hate is a powerful word. It shows contempt, anger, frustration, and meanness. It is an intense or passionate dislike for someone. It expresses how you feel about someone in a very strong and negative way. Once this word is spoken it is out there, and the person you have spoken it to, knows how you feel. Proverbs 10:12 says, “Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses.” Maybe we need to think before we speak. But we also need to be like my father and extend unconditional love. I think God does this for us too—this thing called unconditional love. God bless. Amen.

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