We all want to be heard when we talk. We want the other person we are talking with to listen to what we have to say. Not to talk nor tell us what that person feels we should do, because no one cares what you think until that person knows you care, that is accomplished through listening. When you listen you focus on the person who is talking, not on what you want to say. Nor do you let your mind think about other things, because when you do that, you are not engaged with the person who is talking. You are only concerned with what you are thinking about. To be a good listener, focus on the person who is speaking by maintaining eye contact, don’t speak, pay attention, give back clarifying statements that show you have been listening. Refrain from interrupting or jumping to conclusions. The problem is sometimes people just don’t listen—so we get frustrated. Proverbs 17:8 reads, “Even fools are thought wise if they kept silent, and discerning if they hold their tongue.” James 1:19 reads, “…a good listener is quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.” Today, try listening—just listen—listen to what the other person is saying. When the other person is done talking, then share your thoughts. It is something to think about. God Bless. Have a great day. Amen.